What we call the mind conceptualising is also the One arising, the One ME-ING. This is not about waiting until something drops away but the seeing that ALL of it as it is right now is IT, One!
It is all just the way that it is supposed to be ,all perfect in each and every moment.

There is ONLY Oneness.
Whatever appears is Oneness, even that idea that there is other than Oneness is Oneness appearing.
The apparent you and I are simply Oneness appearing.
Any trying to get closer to Oneness is again Oneness manifesting
CONCLUSION ---- There is ONLY Oneness.

When one sees that one is not the mind or the world what is there left to transcend.
When we face another in this realisation there is no other, only another manifestation of ourSelf.
Out of No-Thing all appears. The No-Thing is what we, me, I is. This is the fact of everything.

The thought that there is or is not a person is itself an impersonal action arising within consciousness. All is simply arising.

AS one sees oneself so one sees the world. All is perfect!